Tiffany & Jim's Bookstore

I found many wedding planning books helpful while planning our wedding. Below are some of my recommendations. And now, through an association with Amazon.com, any of these can be purchased directly from our site!

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Bridal Bargains
by Denise & Alan Fields
This book gives basic, very practical and cost-cutting advice -- we used it for all the nuts-and-bolts planning, and found it to be an absolutely wonderful resource.

I've also heard wonderful things about the Fields' two other wedding books:
Bridal Gown Guide
Far & Away Weddings

Weddings for Grownups
by Carroll Stoner
This book offers practical advice, but one of the things I most enjoyed about it were the sidebars, with advice and suggestions from real brides. I especially liked the emphasis on doing things differently. Stoner's assertion is that every wedding is unique -- and should be -- and she gives couples permission to do things differently (not that we should need permission, but with something so traditional as a wedding, I think it helps).

How to Have the Wedding You Want (Not the One Everyone Else Wants You to Have)
by Danielle Claro
This is wonderful as a psychological antidote to the stress of being a bride-to-be. I read it once while in the midst of planning, then re-read the last couple of chapters (about how to survive the wedding day and beyond) just before the wedding. I loved Claro's humor and sense of perspective when reading it (perspective is one thing that most brides-to-be seem to be a little short on! :)).

Miss Manners on {Painfully Proper} Weddings
by Judith Martin
I actually did use this as a reference for my invitations, although it's not actually a wedding planning book. It is very funny and enjoyable, with lots of real (and often painfully improper -- and hilarious -- letters to Miss Manners). A great stress reliever.

Weddings
by Martha Stewart
This is classic Martha Stewart. It's a beautiful, huge book filled with color pictures and all those touches you've come to expect from Martha. Jim and I found our wedding cake here, complete with photo and recipe -- so it played a rather large part in our wedding planning.

Weddings from the Heart
by Daphne Rose Kingma

This is one of the most popular books touted on the wedding newsgroups. It's a good resource for writing your own ceremony, featuring seven complete ceremonies as well as all kinds of information on each part of the ceremony. We used it to understand the components of a traditional ceremony, and found some of the exercises helpful. Ultimately we only used two tiny passages from the book in our actual ceremony, but found it to be a good resource for doing our own writing.

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