We met in October of 1994 in the restaurant where I was working. The owner I worked for since 1990 opened a new restaurant in March 1993. The new restaurant was 35 miles from my house (as opposed to 7 with the old restaurant). It was set in a country surrounding. Since I had no commitments or children (I was never married), had been going through some very trying times and needed something new, it was a good opportunity. Cheryl Crockett, my former boss said, and I will never forget it, "I realize it is a long drive for you, but who knows, you might find some nice country boy out there." She always loved to play Cupid. I told her, "That may or may not be true, but at least I'll be able to see the leaves change."

Dan had just moved to the area of the restaurant a few months before. His mother lived there and he, too, was going through some difficult times. Dan would come into the restaurant during the day, and I worked nights.

Cheryl told Dan, "You have to meet my nighttime waitress -- you two are perfect for each other." Dan's reaction was the same as mine: "Sure, Cheryl, anything you say." He too took light of Cheryl's matchmaking comments.

So on October 12, 1994, when I had towork a day shift to cover a shortage, I was introduced to Dan by Cheryl. I must admit, sparks did fly. Something kept drawing me to him like a magnet. He just had a soft aura about him. I wanted to know more about him, and started forgetting about my work duties...